I've never been one to understand rules, especially ones that are silent. You know, the ones where we are supposed to draw inside the lines or wear underwear. I pretty much suck at abiding by societies rules. I like to be social, yet there are many times I enjoy hiding away. So, I'm not exactly an extravert or introvert, don't quite fit in any box or category.
Back to what I was saying, the most obscene rules I believe are the dating ones. All the relationship books I've read are pretty right on: do you, don't ever stray from that(which is a GREAT tip to living the happy life). Another one is making the guy wait, allow him to get his ego fed by holding off when it comes to sex. Allow him to hunt, to chase you. There are so many ways to do this and I suck at ALL of them. It’s ANNOYING to have so many “assumed” guidelines! Whatever happened to just being yourself??? If you meet someone....fantastic! If you don’t, join the rest of us losers that are apparently lost in unrealistic standards of being an actual kind human that returns text messages & phone calls. I’m just going to hang out over here in my imaginary utopia palace where I still believe people can be good & good things will happen to them.
By the way, I know my blog isn't for everyone....trust me, I see the numbers. I've been told I'm a wonderful writer, but I know the truth....no one reads this blog and my book sales are NO sales. So, I figured I would just go ahead and write whatever the hell I want and be filter free.
Why can't we just go ahead and live in a world free of competition? Free from judgement and attachment of our past? I don't like playing games, I'm not into rules on how to "get the guy". Guess I'm choosing single-hood, it does look quite good on me, right? I'll just keep celebrating those I'm surrounded by that revel in their romantic relationships.
This brings up a point of why I've always been a fan of Jesus & his never ending reckless love that accepts me unconditionally, now that’s appealing. No having to learn ways to win him over, he's already into me(& you too).
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